The Seasons as a Psychological Pattern
One of the simplest ways to understand psychological life is through the image of the seasons.
Not as a metaphor for progress, but as a pattern of change that repeats whether we want it to or not.
Most people arrive in therapy—or in reflective work more broadly—during what feels like winter. Energy is low. Meaning feels distant. Something that once worked no longer does. There may be grief, anxiety, depression, or a diffuse sense of being cut off from oneself. In the medical model, these experiences are often framed as problems to be resolved. In a seasonal frame, they are understood as phases that belong to a larger cycle.
Winter, psychologically speaking, is not a failure of functioning. It is a period of contraction. Attention turns inward. Life slows. What has been sustaining us thins out, sometimes painfully. This is not comfortable, but it is not accidental either. Something is being asked to rest, dissolve, or end.
Spring does not arrive because winter was handled correctly. It arrives because the conditions for growth have quietly gathered beneath the surface. Psychologically, spring often shows up as curiosity, restlessness, or the faint sense that something new wants attention. This does not always feel hopeful. It can feel disorienting. Old structures are no longer solid, but new ones are not yet formed.
Summer is the season most aligned with how we are taught to value ourselves. Energy increases. Effort is rewarded. Things grow. In psychological terms, this might look like engagement, clarity, movement, or outward expression. Summer is real and important—but it is not meant to last indefinitely. When we expect it to, we often miss what comes next.
Autumn introduces a different task. It is a time of harvest and discernment. What has grown? What has mattered? What needs to be gathered, and what needs to be released? Psychologically, this can involve grief, gratitude, and honest assessment. Autumn is not decline; it is preparation.
What the seasonal pattern offers is a way to understand psychological experience without forcing it into a linear story of improvement. Depression does not have to mean something has gone wrong. Anxiety does not automatically signal danger. Periods of low energy or confusion may reflect a necessary inward turn rather than a malfunction.
Seen this way, the work is not to escape winter, rush spring, or cling to summer. The work is to recognize where one is, and to respond appropriately.
This orientation does not promise relief. It offers context.
And sometimes, context is enough to allow something to shift.